What to expect from a visit to your tarot reader

Tarot reading is a form of divination that uses a deck of 78 cards to gain insight into all aspects your life. The cards are typically divided into two categories: the Major Arcana, which consists of 22 cards that represent major life events, and the Minor Arcana, which consists of 56 cards that represent more everyday events.

To perform a reading, the tarot reader will typically shuffle the deck and ask the person receiving the reading to focus on a specific question or area of their life. The psychic will then lay out the cards in a specific pattern, known as a spread, and interpret the cards based on their position and the meaning of each card.

The process of a tarot reading can vary depending on the reader and the type of reading being performed. A tarot reader may use multiple spreads or ask the person receiving the reading to shuffle the cards themselves. The length of the reading can also vary, with some readings lasting just a few minutes and others lasting an hour or more. During your time together, the tarot reader will typically provide insights and guidance related to the person’s question or area of focus. The cards can reveal hidden truths or patterns in the person’s life, emotions, behaviours and lots more, as well as offer guidance on how to navigate challenges or make decisions or even how to get the most out of an ideal situation.

Whilst beliefs differ between person to person and tarot reader to tarot reader, it’s important to note that tarot readings are not a form of fortune-telling and should not be used alone to make major life decisions. Rather, they are a tool for gaining insight and understanding into oneself and one’s life.  I recommend that people use tarot readings as a platform or stepping stone towards reaching their ultimate goal. Think of them like a conversation or a pep talk with a best friend who knows you better than everyone else.

Some people may believe that the universe will simply hand them everything if they ask or manifest it strongly enough. To me, this is not the case: in the quest for reaching our dreams, we still must take action and fulfil our duties, desires and responsibilities. In addition to this, our futures are never set in stone: every minute action can create ripple effects.

If you’re considering getting a tarot reading, it’s important to approach it with an open mind and realistic expectations. While the cards can offer incredibly deep, relevant and valuable insights and guidance, working with a psychic is not a substitute for professional counselling, or medical, financial or legal advice. While Soulfully Guided tarot readings can provide advice on all areas of your life, they are there for your emotional, soulful and spiritual well-being.

Whether you’re seeking guidance on a specific issue or simply looking for a new perspective, a tarot reading can offer in-depth perception, awareness, insight and guidance. It can help you navigate life’s challenges with greater clarity and purpose.

In the lead up to your Soulfully Guided Tarot Reading, I recommend staying well hydrated. My preparation will involve meditating or sitting quietly so that I can show up for you as you need. If I have your photo, I will connect with it before our reading: providing a photo for your service enhances our bond, however if I don’t have a photo I will connect with details such as your name. I tune in to any information that may come through prior to the reading. When we meet in person or online, I will introduce myself and walk you through what to expect. You will have time to ask any burning questions you may have. It’s crucial for you to know that your session is a safe space without judgement.

Earlier, we talked about spreads, which are essentially the questions that form a tarot reading. Each question in a spread is associated with its own set of cards. A spiritualist can choose to create pre-designed spreads, however I believe in tailoring each reading to meet the specific needs of the individual.

While you speak, I’ll be listening and formulating meaningful questions based on what you share. I craft each reading around your unique requirements. Once I have developed the questions, I will share them with you and we can discuss if you think they will provide the insight you need. If you’re not happy with a particular question, I encourage you to let me know so that we can work together to modify it. As a professional tarot reader, I promise that a request to modify a question will not offend or bother me. It’s my duty of care as a psychic to create a question that resonates with you. You see, the questions we ask are vital to the quality of your reading. The more clear and concise we are in formulating our inquiries, the more powerful, clear and specific your answers will be.

Please remember that this service is entirely dedicated to you: I aim for you to feel comfortable during our time together. As we talk, it also allows me to establish an open connection with you. As an empath, I have a deep emotional understanding and the ability to sense what lies beneath the surface. However, I understand that not everyone feels at ease sharing their innermost emotions with their tarot reader and that is perfectly fine. We will work at your pace, and I will always respect the boundaries you set, both spoken and unspoken. Throughout your session, there’s a lot happening on a psychic, intuitive, and empathic level. The more you allow me into your world, the more I can reveal and assist you. It’s important to note that allowing me in emotionally does not mean you have to disclose every single feeling or detail.

You are welcome to share as little or as much as you’re comfortable with during your reading. Some people find it helpful to talk while others prefer to listen and both approaches are absolutely fine. Your reading won’t be compromised if you choose not to share certain things with your spiritualist.  But it is important you are honest with them. The most important aspect is understanding that this service is completely centered around you, and it will be delivered in a manner that suits your comfort level.

During our chat, I also take a moment to shuffle the cards while maintaining eye contact with you. I hope this doesn’t come across as intrusive. I find that a quick shuffle while you’re talking and leading up to your questions adds to the experience. If we are meeting in person, I might ask you to personally shuffle the cards or even play with them while discussing your questions. This helps infuse your energy into the cards, creating a stronger connection.

During your session, which I like to refer to as my tarot card analyses or tarot card consultation, we begin by laying out the questions we developed together. Before we start, I usually put out some crystals to enhance the energy.  When it’s time to address your questions, I prefer to shuffle the cards (myself this time) and then ask them one question at a time.  As an empath, I use my fingers to scan the spread of cards and trust my emotions to guide me. I choose the card that resonates strongest with my feelings. There’s no room for doubt or second-guessing in this process. If I were to doubt myself or my gifts, it would compromise the quality of your reading. Therefore, I reserve any self-criticism or reflection for times outside of our session. Just like anyone else, even the most talented psychic individuals can be critical of themselves.

If you have multiple topics you’d like to discuss, we focus on one topic at a time. Whether we’re sitting together or connecting online, I share with you what I see and feel about the situation. I also explore everything that emerges in between. My intuition, empathy, and my undergraduate background in psychology and data analysis kick in, allowing me to delve deeper into the cards and analyse the story they tell. I seek information and patterns of behaviour that may either hinder you or serve as your greatest strengths. Despite the complexity of this process, it comes naturally to me. The spiritual analysis doesn’t come across as heavy or systematic but rather feels like a conversation with a trusted friend: someone who can completely understand, see, and feel what you’re going through; only they can tell by looking at you, whereas I can tell by feeling what you’re going through.

Throughout the entire process, my goal as a tarot reader is to make sure you feel comfortable, heard, respected, and valued. Sometimes, when a question is asked, the answer may genuinely be “maybe.” In those cases, I confidently and honestly respond without feeling the need to give an answer just for the sake of it. I will simply convey that your answer is maybe. However, I won’t stop there. I will then seek guidance and advice on how to navigate your uncertain question and work towards your desired outcome. Honesty, transparency, openness, and professionalism are values that I take great pride in upholding. Sometimes, when a question holds significant importance or requires deeper insight, I may ask it in multiple ways. This allows me to then analyse the answers individually and compare them, enhancing the quality of the information I can provide to you.

While it may seem like a lot is happening behind the scenes, I assure you that the exchange is comfortable, informal, and relaxed. All the aspects that I’ve described come naturally to me as a spiritualist, requiring little to no effort during my readings. I have developed confidence in my technique and embrace my gifts, even though there is always room to grow and more to learn. As long as I believe in myself and show up fully during your session, I can provide you with unparalleled guidance.

After addressing a series of questions, but before moving on to the next set or topic, I always give you an opportunity to ask any follow-up questions. I want to ensure that everything I’ve shared makes sense to you. If something requires clarification or if you need further explanation, I make it a priority to address your questions while your cards are laid out before me and we are emotionally connected. This ensures that all your inquiries are answered within the session time. I find it beneficial to address any concerns before transitioning to the next set of questions or topic.

I offer an option to record your reading and I highly recommend this for everyone. I want both of us to be intently focused on your reading instead of you trying to remember everything or taking notes. Having a recording ensures you can revisit and reflect on the valuable insights whenever you require them. During your reading, I also take photos of your tarot cards and send these to you along with an audio copy of your reading within two business days. I always recommend hydrating, getting a good sleep after your readings and letting at least 1 day pass before reflecting on it and then 5-7 days before listening to your recording again. This allows you time to process what we discussed.  My aim is to support you and your needs in a realistic and digestible way, not to pressure or burden you to take action overnight.

Before concluding your reading, I like to have a personalised conversation with you to discuss what we’ve covered and check in with how you’re feeling. I genuinely believe that our readings are an exploration into the depths of your being and as a tarot reader I like all my clients to leave with the power of their readings while feeling valued, heard and seen.

If you would like to see the magic of this process unfold, please head over to our website’s services page to book in your Soulfully Guided Tarot Reading.